Minimalist Philosophy: Sophrosyne

Posted: Wednesday, February 8, 2012 by Tyler Durden in

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Minimalist Philosophy: Sophrosyne

(Photo: phocks)
A few weeks ago, while researching my post on areté, I tripped across another interesting concept from classical Greece: sophrosyne.
Sophrosyne (pronounced suh-FROSS-uh-nee, if you’d like to impress your friends) is an ancient ideal involving healthy-mindedness, balance, and moderation. As you can imagine, I was immediately intrigued. :)
According to Wikipedia, sophrosyne “is perhaps best expressed by the two most famous sayings of the oracle at Delphi: ‘Nothing in excess’ and ‘Know thyself.’ The term suggests a life-long happiness obtained when one’s philosophical needs are satisfied, resembling the idea of enlightenment through harmonious living.”
Unfortunately, the word has no direct counterpart in English, and an in-depth understanding requires a reading of Plato’s CharmidesThe Symposium, and The Republic. But if you don’t mind a little armchair philosophy, I’ll give you my interpretation of the term, and how it relates to our minimalist journey.
As I see it, there are three main facets to sophrosyne:
  1. Self-knowledge
  2. Self-restraint
  3. Harmony
Or, in my minimalist interpretation:
  1. Knowing what’s enough for you
  2. Choosing enough over excess
  3. Finding joy in enough
Sophrosyne, then, isn’t about self-denial. Rather, it’s avoiding overindulgence (like doing, buying, owning, or eating “too much”) because it truly makes you happier to do so.
Some examples:
Sophrosyne isn’t skipping the Doritos or a second helping, and feeling miserable about it; it’s eating healthy foods, in healthy proportions, because it makes your body feel better.
Sophrosyne isn’t denying yourself that new handbag/gadget/car, while continuing to yearn for it; it’s being excited to preserve some of the Earth’s resources, or put that money into your child’s college fund instead.
Sophrosyne isn’t giving up your TV because it’s “a minimalist thing,” but because it gives you more time to pursue the activities you love.
Sophrosyne isn’t throwing all your stuff away in a no-holds-barred decluttering session; it’s questioning whether each item you own adds value to your life, or if you’d be happier without it.
Sophrosyne isn’t about choosing moderation because you think you should, but because it feels right and delights your soul.
A common misconception about minimalists is that we ditch our material possessions in some bizarre attempt to deny ourselves the “pleasures” of consumerism. I think what critics don’t get is this concept of sophrosyne: that we reject overconsumption because we get more pleasure from not owning three closets of clothes or a houseful of knickknacks. We derive more happiness from saving our space, time, money, or the planet, than acquiring more possessions.
Sophrosyne isn’t about self-restraint for its own sake, but rather the joy it brings us. It’s living a wise, graceful, and balanced life because we wouldn’t have it any other way.
In the time of Aristotle and Plato, sophrosyne was of supreme importance, a virtue to which people aspired. Unfortunately, it’s been lost in our modern age. Today, our society rewards the big, the loud, the radical, the extreme; sophrosyne, in contrast, is all about quiet elegance. I hope, however, that the growing popularity of minimalism—living beautiful lives with less—will spark a new interest in the concept.
Having sophrosyne is like being a finely-tuned instrument, with all our thoughts, values, and actions in harmony. But it goes beyond that: mastering our desires, and avoiding extremes in consumption, attitudes, and behavior, doesn’t benefit only ourselves. Like the melodious note from a plucked string, sophrosyne radiates out to the rest of the world, helping us live in harmony with nature and each other.
I hope I’ve been able to explain this wonderful concept with some coherence. Is anyone else as enamored with sophrosyne as I am?
{If you’d like to learn more about minimalist living, please consider reading my book, The Joy of Less, A Minimalist Living Guide, or subscribing to my RSS feed.}
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45 comments to Minimalist Philosophy: Sophrosyne

  • Laura
    Is this wise moderation what minimalist is about? When the person does not ‘cover up’ with minimalism for something they lack or have not achieved in life?
    Can you reach Sophrosyne-minimalism without achieving the self-actualization level on the Maslow pyramid?
    …Francine, you gave me something interesting to thing about! :)
  • I absolutely adore your interpretation of the sophrosyne philosophies. You write it so beautifully. And in a way that is not extremist or alarmist. I continue to look forward to your posts. I will be sharing this one around.
  • Oh my gosh, that was the most beautiful post!
    What you write makes my heart sing for joy.
    There are many parallels to the Yoga Sutras, such as Brahmcharya – moderation. It used to be sexual moderation, but more recent interpretations include moderation in day to day living for the average householder.
    I also loved the post on the Monks Bowl. My DH may have to go to Bangkok on a work junket, and I am going to join him (hopefully the grandparents can take the kiddies) and visit the place you mentioned.
    Sara
  • I am enamored! I love this idea, particularly the part where you said we derive more happiness from saving our space, time, money, or the planet, than owning more things. That’s a hard concept for people to understand these days.
  • Layla
    Ooh. This is definitely what I’ve been aiming for – for the past year it’s been a conscious effort to try to do things in moderation.
    Sometimes I get so caught up in trying to fix all my habits and faults, to acheive a perfectly content life, that I end up getting stressed out.
    It’s a process – you don’t have to do everything right all the time. You can make mistakes in moderation (then learn from them).
  • JET1980
    I really like this post. For too long it seems that minimalism has been a reaction to consumerism rather than a concept that stands alone. When we can live in a minimalist way naturally, without trying to balance out materialism, stand in opposition to stuff, or in any other way define it as a negation of something else, we find peace, happiness, and contentment.
  • Sophrosyne is such a beautiful concept. Such a short and simple word with such profound depth and meaning. Sounds like a perfect analogy to a minimalist life.
    Thanks for sharing this and explaining it so well.
  • Very nice as always Francine -
    I think what you’re discovering is something that’s been swirling around in my head for some time as well, all coming down to a definition of terms. Your blog name notwithstanding, I find people react badly to the word ‘minimalism.’ I like Merlin Mann’s phrase ‘just-rightism’ or the result of your meditation on sophrosyne, ‘enough.’ Because that’s what it’s really about for most of us who don’t view minimalism as a trend, or an art movement, or Swedish furniture design…but as an enduring, sustainable, resilient lifestyle. Thank you for saying it so succinctly, and beautifully as always!
  • Love it! one of my favorite posts so far. Pointing my friends to this one. It’s often difficult to explain the philosophy about minimalism isn’t about self denial, but moderation.
    Thanks!
  • I appreciate your insight. I like that you distinguished what minimalism really means. It is not a rash throw away session, but rather a meticulous evaluation of ones possessions and lifestyle. Thank you for that.
  • I love how you say this: “A common misconception about minimalists is that we ditch our material possessions in some bizarre attempt to deny ourselves the “pleasures” of consumerism.”
    SO TRUE! I get that vibe a lot from my close family and friends who don’t understand or agree with my household’s shift towards minimalism.
    This is a wonderful post & a wonderful idea.
  • Lorna
    I agree with Matt. It’s all about “a meticulous evaluation of ones possessions and lifestyle”. I find myself really looking at each and every thing I own (literally) to
    see if it holds any value or makes me happy. If not, out it goes!
  • Pat
    Did anyone see Tom Shadyak on Oprah talking about his new film “I Am” which is about the philosophy of having what’s needed rather than excess. He said he learned that more didn’t make him more happy. And talked about “meeting the self at ones needs” not excess. They covered many other things that are pertinent to this discussion
  • You explained the concept of sophrosyne so beautifully!!
  • I really love these Greek inspired theme posts. They always give me something to think about for days to come. Tomorrow I’ll be sitting somewhere and go “sophrosyne!” Inspiration will strike and I’ll be moved to new levels of thinking and acting.
    Thank you so much for keeping it simple, beautiful, and fun!
  • Bartosz
    You put in words ideas I try to live at least recdently! It’s so nice to finally hear someone shares the same point of view!
  • Jason
    Thank you for the beautiful writing Francine and sharing a useful philosophical concept! Will re examine the referenced works of Plato with this concept in mind.
  • Karen T.
    I love Layle’s comment of making mistakes in moderation, and learning from them. Moderation doesn’t mean perfection!
    I admit I do think of minimalism as a stand against consumerism and self-centeredness, but this wonderful word sophrosyne is a positive concept that reminds me of the Christian “fruits of the Spirit” (alas, so rarely seen) — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. As Jesse says, this isn’t trendy, but enduring, sustainable, and resilient.
    In a world where bigger is always better, and a royal wedding becomes the new standard by which everyone measures their own life celebrations, sophrosyne is so far under the radar it’s subversive. Revolutionary post, Francine!
  • Sarah
    “I think what critics don’t get is this concept of sophrosyne: that we reject overconsumption because we get more pleasure from not owning three closets of clothes or a houseful of knickknacks. We derive more happiness from saving our space, time, money, or the planet, than acquiring more possessions.”
    Soooooo true
  • What a beautiful post and so beautifully said. My father was Greek and I tend to love anything Greek, but the word sophrosyne is so wonderful in how it rolls off the tongue and brings to mind how I am trying to live in this world. Thanks for another thought provoking post.
    May I put a link to your blog on my blog as one I read?
  • I love this new word !!!! SOPHROSYNE ! Thank you
  • Mike C.
    I think minimalism gets a bit of bad rap because the word comes from the Art and Design world where it carries a notion of being stripped down to essential elements. You used the word harmonious and that word resonates very well with me.
    It’s really just about striking a balance in all aspects of our lives and not just about consumerism. It’s about how we spend our time and energy working, playing, volunteering/helping in our communities, with friends/families, loving and being loved, communing with nature, learning, sleeping, eating, exercising, and in other creative pursuits.
    All of those things in the right measure is where true happiness can be found.
  • I really like what you said here. I keep trying to find ways to explain my lifestyle to people (even though I blog about it), but there are always misconceptions. I think sophrosyne offers another way to explain what we do.
    Even better, I think the concept can fit in with almost any philosophical/religious system!
    Peace,
    Caleb
  • Mrs Brady Old Lady
    This is superb, thank you Francine.
    I can’t put it in words why but it makes me think of Mindfulness, which to me is also think about what you are doing and buying.
    Thank you.
  • It makes me chuckle when I hear the critics of minimalism suggesting that someone is being contrary, just because they are choosing to go without over indulgence.
    The concept of sophrosyne is definitely a beautiful one.
  • Fawn
    I don’t think it’s about *mastering* our desires, but fufilling them at a more sublime level.
    But you are spot on Francine. Excellent post.
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  • Elegantly expressed, and spot on!
  • ElizMcK
    The term encapsulates the concept beautifully. I have never felt deprived. I know who I am and what I like. I don’t identify with being a consumer. I have never enjoyed the vulgar practice of conspicuous consumption; it looks and feels like noise to me. I evaluate whether something is a need or a want and sometimes I will elect to purchase a want, but I do so fully conscious of that fact.
    Sophrosyne takes minimalism out of Art and Design, out of faddish deprivation and allows it to be what it truly is – a mindful and purposeful and philosophical way of living, based on intelligence, grace, dignity, awareness, purpose, etc.
    It also seems that Sophrosyne, while ideal, is an individual choice, something to be practiced quiety, never attempting to preach or impose it on anyone else, because it is a person choice and one can only know oneself. I would think that the discovery of it is a gift – to be self-aware and accountable, achieving both balance and bliss.
  • Great post! Definitely agree; thanks for sharing it so clearly!
  • Wonderful post, Francine! It is true that we are minimalists because of the joy, freedom and peace it gives us, a holistic approach in which we appreciate ourselves, other people, the things we own and use, and our shared earth. It’s NOT about deprivation or being trendy.
  • Just discovered your blog recently, Francine, and I love this post. It’s right along the lines of how I feel about minimalism the way it should always be thought of…as you describe, it’s not a “less for the sake of less” approach but a clearing out of the unnecessary to make room for what you truly do want in your life.
    And thanks for the new term! I’m a total word geek, so I’m already in love with “sophrosyne” and will be looking for excuses to use it in sentences and watch people roll their eyes. :o )
  • Fantastic, thought provoking post.Love your site !
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  • Very interesting concept. I haven’t heard of this before, but I really like the concept. Thanks for sharing it.
  • Val
    Sounds like the Swedish word lagom. It means something like “enoughness” or balance or the right amount. It’s what I strive for in life. Makes sense for the concept to have synonyms.
  • Your post is lovely. Two statements stood out to me and begged to be merged:
    “Today, our society rewards the big, the loud, the radical, the extreme; and sophrosyne,”–
    “Unfortunately, the word has no direct counterpart in English”.
    All too true. :/
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  • Jaime
    It’s a wonderful concept. Because of minimalism, I spend less time cleaning and less time doing chores. Owning less allows me to spend more time with friends, family, and with my hobbies. Even if I were to win the lottery tomorrow (not that I buy lottery tickets) but I would keep my lifestyle about the same. I would never want my stuff to own me or overwhelm me.
    I’ve read a lot of celebrity biographies where celebs who used to have millions became poor over time through spending, bad investments, and letting other people manage their money. I’ve learned that money doesn’t really solve problems and that you really have to start within.
  • I am, absolutely, enamored with the philosophy of sophrosyne. thank you so much for bringing it to our attention in this post. I am just starting my minimalist journey and it is freeing, knowing oneself and liking what you see. Instead of having to fill the void with ‘stuff’, ick.
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